The FoF and the FoR mentality
The mentality of FEAR of REJECTION (FoR) and the mentality of FEAR of FAILURE (FoF) will probably keep millions of people away from realizing their greatest dreams, goals, and their greatest aspirations. It is a mentality that’s probably GUARANTEED TO STOP YOU from achieving your greatest success !! If there is ONE thing that is guaranteed to be your biggest obstacle to unfolding HUGE success in your life, that thing will be the mentality of FEAR of REJECTION (FoR) and the mentality of FEAR of FAILURE (FoF). You ARE LIVING in that mentality right now !
· It is controlling your brain
· It is controlling your life
· It is controlling your future
· And it is controlling most everything else you are trying to be or trying to achieve !
· It is the thing that LIMITS you in a BIG way
If you are the type of person who is always approaching things by trying to come up with the CLEANEST METHOD or the BEST WAY that’s the MOST perfect and elegant approach, such that you WANT TO MAKE NO MISTAKES AT ALL and you want to have the MOST PERFECT PLAN before you attempt any of your activities and initiatives, then I have some bad news for you . . . . you are probably NOT the type of person who will ever make radical success in his/her life. You will NEVER make radical success in your life with a MENTALITY like that !
Because . . .
· You are AFRAID of rejection !
· You are AFRAID of making an asshole out of yourself
· You are AFRAID of appearing to be a fool
· You are AFRAID of looking stupid
· You are AFRAID of how THEY WILL think of you
· You are AFRAID of the way OTHERS look at you
· You’re STILL living your life to PLEASE OTHERS, and to MAKE THEM HAPPY
· You’re AFRAID to live YOUR OWN LIFE, and to ATTEMPT YOUR OWN FEATS
· And to put it plainly . . . . you are simply living OTHER PEOPLE’s life !
The greatest millionaires and billionaires have all come out of overcoming this specific mentality. The mentality of FEAR of REJECTION (FoR) and the mentality of FEAR of FAILURE (FoF). You have to train your mind and adapt it MENTALLY to the FULLEST in a manner that allows it to FINALLY LEARN TO ACCEPT that you WILL BE REJECTED and to accept that your ideas will be DISMISSED several times by other people before you can arrive at your Pot of Gold and live your Dream Life ! Some of your ideas will be BASHED and criticized left, right, and center . . . . and THAT’S GONNA HAPPEN ! You need to train your mind TO BE TUNED and FULLY READY to accept this sort of thing . . . there will be rejection and there will be criticisms, there will be those who bad mouth you and bash all your ideas ; there will be MANY who will dislike your ideas and DISLIKE you. Now if you can TUNE your mind and make it READY for all of this . . . you will GO THROUGH IT pretty smoothly and that’s HOW you’re going to end up at your FINAL DREAM DESTINATION !
If you are NOT willing to accept that fact at all, then I am sorry to say this . . . . you have probably NOT yet reached a level where you can Unlock Radical Success in your life. You will NOT see a million dollars anytime soon. You’ll probably end up as one of the average “hard working” people who only get by with a few thousand dollars per month and you’ll be spending years of your life before you get to your first million dollars ; in fact you may NEVER really see a solid million dollars in your pocket at all.
You must be READY TO ACCEPT REJECTION and know that every time it happens, it is bringing you a STEP closer to your ULTIMATE DREAM LIFE, because every rejection or dismissal that crashes you, that would be ONE bad obstacle “out of the way” for you ! Trust me on this !
Success is probably more of a numbers game in a big way ! It is a calculated numbers game. If you want the most beautiful girl in your life ; the girl of your DREAMS . . . you should be willing to be dismissed/rejected by ENOUGH GIRLS before you finally reach that dream girl you’ve been looking for ! There WILL BE ONE for you down the road if YOU KEEP KNOCKING the bad ones who reject & dismiss you . . . just keep knocking them off your list one by one, and sooner or later, you will arrive at a REALLY BEAUTIFUL GIRL who is just what you were looking for . . . and like a God send . . . she will Truly Accept you into her life and love you in the way you just imagined ! In fact, she will appear to have been “waiting for someone like you” ! You will probably rush to THINK that it was just your lucky day . . . but if you sit back and count, and you calculate carefully how your CONSISTENCY and NO-GIVE-UP SPIRIT has delivered you to such a special girl, you will NOT be surprised at all. You will realize you have Earned IT !! You will realize that it was BOUND TO HAPPEN to you, even if it had NOT been this particular girl !
So guys, if you really want to see radical success in your life :
· You must be READY TO ACCEPT REJECTION !
· You must be READY TO ACCEPT REJECTION as soon as you step out of your door !
· Rejection is exactly WHAT’s gonna happen out there in the REAL world when you take a step to DO SOMETHING !
· Success will probably NOT be the first thing that will happen to you.
· Rejection is GONNA BE the first thing that will happen to you.
· They will DISMISS your idea ! They will REJECT your approach and your style.
· They will almost damage your reputation and try to leave you flat in the trash.
· THAT’S WHAT’S GONNA HAPPEN !!
· You must be READY TO ACCEPT REJECTION in whatever proportion and in whatever amount it is thrown at you !
· You must be READY TO ACCEPT being DISMISSED !
· You must be READY TO ACCEPT your ideas being DISMISSED !
· You must be READY TO ACCEPT your reputation being DESTROYED and SPOILT flat out !
AND . . . every time after it happens, you MUST be willing to Stand Up, Brush Off the dust from your shoulders, and KEEP GOING forward STEADFASTLY. Just this SINGLE THING ALONE (these FEW lines above), will GET YOU TO YOUR ULTIMATE DREAMS SOONER THAN YOU EXPECTED ! And you’ll be SMILING so HAPPILY when you remember WHAT you’ve been through to arrive WHERE YOU FINALLY ARE NOW. Your TEARS of JOY will NEVER end as you look at this BEAUTIFUL DREAM that has eventually UNFOLDED right in front of you, and STRAIGHT INTO YOUR LIFE !
Now, here's something that really shocked me, AFTER writing this WHOLE article !
Just the very DAY AFTER writing this article, I came across something rather strange in ANOHTER RANDOM book that had NOTHING to do with my writing at all. This is what I picked up as I was glancing through that random book.
I’m not sure if you have heard of the famous book called ‘Think and Grow Rich’ written by Napoleon Hill ? In Napolean’s book, he dissects 20 years of research he conducted on some of the most influential and wealthiest Americans in history.
Hill closely studied the characteristics of all these high achievers and developed a number of laws and traits that were common among all of them and ultimately resulted in their success.
One trait that became evident to Hill was that every single one of these individuals had achieved success right after they had hit rock bottom failure. Hill says it like this :
“Most great people have attained their greatest success just one step beyond their greatest failure”
You hear that guys . . . you hear that !!
Just ONE step BEYOND their GREATEST failure . . . .
it BLEW MY MIND to pieces . . . to discover that about a notable writer such as Napolean Hill, having discovered this VERY TRUTH first-hand myself in my OWN original thoughts just a DAY earlier :)) I must say, I have NEVER read anything by Napolean Hill or even known a THING about him, but I was shocked to discover all this parallel congruency between MY ORIGINAL THOUGHTS and those of Napolean Hill. I just could NOT fricken believe IT !!
So, this will work for MANY situations & challenges in your life guys. It will work ! Whether you’re looking for a beautiful girl in your life, or you’re looking for that special soul mate, or you’re struggling to make success in your business, you’re in financial troubles looking for a miracle or a solution, or whether you’re struggling with your health to find a cure or an effective treatment for your condition and so many others ! Trust me, I’ve been through it . . . . and I know IT WORKS !
And that’s it guys ! That’s THE SECRET ! That’s it !!
